For some time now, Mathilde has been dreading to show himself to the gate of her daughter’s school, for a very specific reason.
For many parents, going to get your child at school is a moment of joy. All come together in front of the grid, their gaze sweeps the courtyard, in search of the face of their little cherub. Their eyes finally meet. A smile takes shape on the child’s face, he rushes towards his mom or his dad, proud to tell his day. This reunion is often a moment of happiness, a reassuring ritual after hours spent far from each other. But for Mathilde, it has become the opposite.
Before becoming a mother, this 32 -year -old woman was almost impatiently awaiting these moments when she would go back to school. Except that since the start of the school year in CP of her daughter Emma, this moment of joy has gradually transformed into an ordeal. “Today, I fear every day to go get my daughter from school, I try to stay a little behind the other parents in front of the establishment’s portal”she confides to us. The reason? She fears to be, once again, challenged by the mistress. Because, since kindergarten, Emma has encountered academic difficulties. Recently diagnosed ADD (attention deficit disorder), it nevertheless benefits from follow -up with health professionals. But despite all her efforts, she remains dissipated in class.
“Each time, the mistress wants to see me to tell me what Emma did” harm “today. She did not hear more than 20 minutes on her chair, she did not assess math, she slept on her desk … By force, I am tired of hearing that. With her dad, we know her difficulties, we do everything to help him. I don’t know what I can do. guilty too “Mathilde explains to us.
If these returns do not necessarily start from a bad feeling and that the mistress seeks above all to warn and hold the parents informed of what is going on in class, there is certainly a lack of tact … “I am probably not the only mother to live this” Estem Mathilde who told the situation to her own mother. “”She told me that she had known the same thing with my little sister a little. All his teachers reproached him for his chatter, they almost stuck a label to him. However, today, she did higher education and came very well “, she concluded. So, no need to take these feedback too much to heart, now, she only listens to these comments.
