Organizing a wedding party is always stressful, and we all do odd. Some unforeseen events can also spoil the party … Here is what it is better to avoid.
Most couples take the lead to anticipate the organization of their marriage, up to a year in advance. Suffice to say that the choice of the dress, the link with the providers, the budget to manage, the guest list or the reception room and the town hall to book … All these small details add stress over time. The mental charge is at its height, and on D -Day, this whole organization unfortunately does not prevent the unforeseen events, the bad choices and the disasters. After a few years of marriage, these couples come back to what was spoiled the party and give advice to the bride and groom, to avoid the worst.
Rebecca got married last summer in the Paris region. For her, everything was perfect, except for a detail that made her husband uncontrollable. “He heavily insisted on calling a cocktail bar: the guests were mostly happy to be able to drink at will, it put a good atmosphere, but clearly, my husband was drunk. He ended up taking the microphone and playing word games on the guest names …“The young woman somewhat regrets this option which she also finds irresponsible for those who then lead to go home.
Sophie was very disappointed with the surprise made by her husband’s brothers and sisters and she couldn’t say anything. “”They wanted to please us by concocting a film retracing our meeting, but they put themselves forward by mentioning none of the highlights of our life: not a mention on my mother who left us, not a photo on the birth of our son and few photos of our couple.“What she advises? Do not delegate the things that are close to your heart, because so far, she regrets not having done it herself.
On our forum, Lola also recounts the course of her marriage planned abroad. Unfortunately, the young woman exposed herself to a chain of improbable situations: “Arriving at the airport, I miss the plane. I had to beg the agent to put myself on the next flight. My makeup and my hairstyle were horrible. I had to remove everything and do it myself. My husband forgot me, because his family arrived at marriage with more than two hours late. We almost canceled everything “she writes.
Of course, the weather can also spoil the party and it is advisable to provide arbors or umbrellas if the weather is not mild. Aurore and Fabrice had chosen to organize their reception in summer, with a Garden-Party outdoors. “The women who wore high heels sank into the wet lawn, and it was necessary to shorten the buffet to go inside”tells us the couple. Finally, the brides are not very comfortable on their heels, the falling ladies of honor (or the bride), the providers who make a flop or the atmosphere that is not there. Without forgetting the guests that are found at the bad table (we are not always aware of all family stories) … So, take a step back, everything cannot always be perfect, anticipate as much as possible, and enjoy the present moment on D -Day!
