Only one false note is sometimes enough to seal the general atmosphere and the guests. One in particular is regularly committed by the bride or the husband.
Writing a wedding speech is not an easy exercise. People, who think it is done in just a few minutes, do not always know what it really turns out. Because generally, it takes time: between the good ideas to find, the tone to use, the plan to be established and writing. The bride and groom will undoubtedly be able to confirm it, on paper, most try to indulge in open heart, trying to choose the right words to translate what they feel for their partner. Some even take the opportunity to slip some anecdotes, romantic or fun on their meeting or their common memories, in order to make the public react by laughter or tears. But sometimes, even if the bride has the best intentions, it does not always go as planned.
Indeed, according to an editor specializing in marriage speech, Heidi Ellert-Mcdermott, some errors frequently return to the speeches of the bride and groom. One of them also has the gift of plumbing the general atmosphere, these are endless thanks. You know, this kind of speech in which we find a “thank you” tirade that lasts long minutes. You risk making the moment very annoying or boring for the guests.
The expert rather advises to thank the people closest to the couple, who contributed in one way or another to their love story. It can be a good friend or a family member for example. Above all, do not individually thank all your guests and even less all of your providers. Worse, if you draw up a list of thanks, and unfortunately forget an essential person at your wedding, it could be upset. In summary, according to his expertise, a good speech must be sincere, insightful and precise, so drop the platitudes and avoid the sentences that could be used in a banal discourse.
