The decorators sometimes face unusual requests. Weddings, baby showers, birthdays … Nothing very surprising. But it happens that a client makes them go off the beaten track.
This is what happened to Lynds Event, decorator and event organizer in Lyon. When Vanika contacted her, she came out of a complicated period and wanted to party to mark a new start. In its specifications were colored balloons, little red hearts, a call photo, music, laughter, and above all a lot of love. No stowed atmosphere or protocol. Just a day to feel alive and released. Together, they imagined a joyful scenography, which looked like revenge on life.
If this kind of celebration has grown in recent years, its origin dates back to the United States, where we have seen the first “divorce games” appear in the 2000s. The concept has gradually spread elsewhere, through shared testimonies on social networks. The idea is simple: to transform an ordeal into a party, to laugh instead of crying and regaining power on its history. It is not an obligation, but a possibility. A way like any other to close a chapter.
“After a very complicated relationship, Vanika wanted to mark this new stage of life with her new companion by celebrating her release”explains Lynds Event. For her, it was an opportunity to turn the page in style. To evacuate negative emotions, to feel surrounded in a moment not always easy. And above all, to approach the situation with humor and lightness. “I would never have thought of organizing a divorce party one day”says the decorator.
@Lynds_event as a decorator sometimes my clients ask me for decorations for unusual events in order to mark moments of their life stories as unusual, they have seen the trend of these divorce festivals that make a lot of them, I couldn’t imagine one day. Vanika M contacted, she tells me her life story, as difficult as touching I agreed to accompany her in this process by helping them organize this moment which seemed so important to them. For her. After a very complicated relationship, she wanted to mark this new life with her new companion by celebrating her release it was for her: the location of celebrating a new step in her life after a difficult period released negative emotions: associated with the end of a relationship strengthening social support: feeling surrounded in an often difficult moment. Laugh in the situation: sometimes the best way to face a difficult situation is to plow with humor and lightness. In the end, celebrating your divorce is a personal and individual decision. This can be a liberating step for some people, while other can choose to move on without celebration. Limportant is to find what works best for yourself and to respect your own needs and desires and I am here to help you what do you think of all this? Said me in comment! #decorationevenemelie #divorce #divorceparty #eventsplanning #decoratorLyon #Decoratrice #Lyon #AIN #Rhonealpes #Ballons #emations Tshwala BAM (feat. SNE, EEQUE) – TITOM & YUPPE
In the end, celebrating your divorce is a deeply personal decision, everyone is free. For some, this represents a liberating, almost therapeutic step. For others, there is nothing to celebrate, just a transition to live discreetly.
The main thing is to listen to your needs. And sometimes, a little music and close relatives can do a lot of good.
