During a first appointment, whether we reveal our underwear a little, a lot, madly or not at all, one thing is certain: we wear it. And we are never immune to a faux-pas. We tell you everything.
Choose your underwear for humans opposite
After a two -hour debate with a friend (thong or not thong?) I put on a thong because we concluded that Robert (my pretender) had a head to love the thongs. Result, I fidget on my chair during our glass (I don’t like thongs), I am not comfortable in my pants and I feel completely next to the real me (the one that wears cotton panties).
- Why is it a misstep? Because the essentials in terms of underwear is to be comfortable and to feel beautiful. As soon as I am good with my underwear, because they are comfortable and correspond to me, I feel desirable. A bit like when I go out from the shaved esthetician as I like and I fly on the sidewalk because I feel good in my sneakers.
Cheat
After Robert, I meet Marcel. In order to be very comfortable and hide my surplus of pizzas surrounding my navel, I choose to put a sheath. My belly is flat (suddenly I order a pizza), I feel beautiful, desirable (so I think I learned from my error with Robert), in short it’s magic. What is less so is to go to his house by realizing that to have sex, you have to undress. In addition to revealing a sheath, I am about to reveal a belly.
- Why is it a misstep? If cheating thanks to a few devices, such as Push Up ducts or bras, can boost self-confidence, it is still a shame to find yourself in a situation at Bridget Jones. Of course, we can decide to assume the truth once naked. But in these cases, you might as well assume it from the start, right?
Do not anticipate (at all)
I am the type to drown in a glass of water, so when my date is approaching (fifteen minutes) and I undertake to dress, it’s panic. I drown myself in a die sew (you would have filled with water). I arrive at the rendezvous with the exceeding suspenders, a pink bra under a red T-shirt, it looks like a living candy. My panties are purple, everything is for the best.
- Why is it a misstep? Taking it at the last moment makes me do anything and I finish annoyed because I don’t like my outfit. I can’t get into the evening. From now on, I know that it is worth planning and doing some rigor fittings to reassure me: such a t-shirt deserves such a bra and such a bra has a little tour of the machine. I am ready.
Make too much or not enough
Sometimes I have hot impulses and I wear alluring underwear (memories of an ex who was just as much). Other times, my impulses are wiser, they go to panties Patrick the starfish. The drama occurs when I point to an appointment with Patrick the starfish, convinced that we will not end up at night (with my contender, not Patrick). When he invites me to him, I’m afraid. When he undresses, I cross my fingers so that he is wearing a PSG pants and triggers myself.
- Why is it a misstep? I have time to take out the big game to have fun or not get it out at all (winter evenings). For a first meeting, I remain sober. I am not here to make tons of them, not there either to send bad signals involuntarily like “I am not trying to seduce you”. As a Chinese proverb “any prudent foot can arise where he wants.”
Reveal everything
A big neckline to be sure of pleased Simon and here I am. He passes the dinner watching my neckline. Going home, now I wear a completely transparent panties. He jumps on me and zaps the preliminary box. I wonder if there is a cause and effect link.
- Why is it a misstep? It is more interesting to suggest and give way to the surprise. To put everything on the table at the first appointment is to burn a few steps. In terms of sex, the appetizers have their importance, they just have to fill a stomach in the first spoon. In addition, hiding and taking the time to reveal yourself helps to feel more sexy and appetizing. I now play the mystery.
