People who receive it find themselves particularly embarrassed…
Every year, some people want to break away from traditional gifts and find something more meaningful. But a very common present, supposed to be original, can quickly spoil the atmosphere. And yet many continue to choose it.
The idea seems valid: change books, socks or gift cards and aim for a more personal item. We want to show that we know the person well, that we have taken the time to think. Except that this type of gift leaves no room for error. It requires knowing precise details, which not everyone has in mind, especially in the middle of the December rush. A small approximation is enough to create a strange moment, sometimes more embarrassing than touching.
The first sensitive point is the size. Impossible to improvise. Style also matters: completely changing your look is not a good idea. Color may vary, shape does not. Sellers also emphasize the importance of being able to exchange the item. Even with the right information, sometimes the choice is not suitable.
Another difficulty: the moment when we offer the gift. Holidays often bring together the whole family, several generations and multiple conversations. In this setting, some gifts go very badly. Opening a package containing an intimate item while everyone is sitting around the table can make everyone uncomfortable. No one really wants to deal with this somewhat heavy silence or the surprised looks. This type of present requires a calmer setting, where the exchange takes place in pairs, without spectators. Just a few minutes apart is enough, but you have to think about it. The gift in question? Lingerie.
The model may be too small, too big, offered at the wrong time or misinterpreted. The intention may be good, but the result rarely is. And during the holidays, it’s best to avoid anything that risks adding awkwardness around the table.
