It is often necessary courage to impose yourself and grow in a sometimes stereotypical society. To give your child the weapons necessary in life, here are some sentences to pronounce as much as necessary …
It has too often heard that the boys were smarter, stronger and more courageous than girls (they who are so fragile and so soft). But these stereotypes only exist if we let children believe in it. Also, to break the prejudices that are indeed anchored in mentalities, and prove to your little girl that it is better than the others, here is what she should hear.
1 – You are strong!
There are not only boys who dream of becoming as powerful as their favorite characters. The girls also have fun with their superheroes and do not lack courage and strength. It is enough that they draw from their reserves, and that they are not afraid to face others.
2 – You are intelligent
Your little girl must become aware of her value from an early age. It is thanks to her intelligence that she will manage to achieve her goals and to differentiate herself from others. Learn the distribution, respect for others and benevolence, so that it has all the weapons necessary to advance in life.
3 – You can do the sport and the job of your choice
Who said football or combat sports were only reserved for boys? Teaching your daughter that she also has the right to play ball or any other sport if she wishes, it is also to make her understand that she can claim all types of profession. And TOC!
4 – You are the most beautiful and the nicest
Because women always tend to devalue themselves, it is essential to help her open their eyes to her charm and her beauty, so that she can have confidence in her. In addition, she looks like mom! His kindness and sweetness are also qualities that are to be valued.
5 – Believe in your dreams and realize them!
What could be more satisfactory than realizing your biggest dreams? Admittedly, they evolve as life progresses, but they allow you to move forward and grow. To achieve this, you just have to give yourself the means to reach them. So that your daughter believes in her dreams, start by listening to her or taking them seriously.
6 – Don’t let anyone devalue you
Accepting criticism and knowing how to question yourself when the remarks are justified can be positive to improve. On the other hand, teach him never to be lowered. His distributed will then constitute his best defense weapon.
7 – “You are capable of it”
Do not let your child be discouraged at the slightest difficulty. Rather than saying to yourself “I will never get there, this math problem is far too hard“, help your child to work more. Nevertheless, teach him also not to feel guilty in case of failure.”It does not matter, you will do better next time“,”You have the right to be wrong “And “We learn from our mistakes“Are also sentences that will allow him to go ahead and bounce back.
