Is your best friend married and has done the honor of being her witness? To live up to your expectations, you will have to roll up your sleeves! Fortunately, we have some good advice for you.
When we are wedding witnesswe must usually take care of The organization of the bachelor party. First, you must constitute the List of guests. Ask the bride who she would like to see (it would be stupid to invite her colleague Marguerite that she would find it difficult to bear!). For the date, nothing beats a good doodle to know everyone’s availability. Once the date and the list of guests have been defined, dig the meninges to find animations close to you, or an EVJF destination that will appeal to as many people as possible and above all, to the future bride. If she likes adventure, think of a weekend by the sea so that she indulges in water sports or hikes, and those who are not outstanding sportsmen can sink gently. In France or abroad, think of the budget and the desires of each. The theme, activities, surprises, you will find, with the help of other guests enough to amuse the whole gallery!
The Guide of the witness to manage like a pro to the wedding
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Wedding witness: what role during preparations?
Whether during the visits to reception places, the tasting of the cake, the fittings of the wedding dress or for DIY evenings around a bottle of wine, you must be fully invested. Be notified, the future bride tends to transform into “Bridezilla” when it is stressed! House her nerves, unload her from certain tasks and be the ally that never makes him a misdemeanor. Yes, she must be able to rest on you, count on your presence, day and night. Your friendship will be reinforced by these moments of complicity. Of course, the role of marriage witnesses will start with the signing of witnesses to the town hall. Be sure to provide upstream all the documents necessary for civil marriage, be punctual, and even in advance on D -Day, you will be as close as possible to the bride and groom and your signature will make the Mayor!
What speech to prepare as a wedding witness?
All wedding witness who respects himself meticulously prepares a beautiful Speech for marriage of her best friend. You are not good when it comes to expressing yourself in public? Take a great inspiration and tell yourself that you do it for your best friend and that she would do it without hesitation for you. Be funny without doing too much, talk about it of course without putting it in embarrassment (forget the anecdotes of the evenings where she finished with her panties on the head, completely drunk), and do not forget to mention her half and the way they met.
On her wedding day, your friend will necessarily be stressed! The first thing about the newlyweds when they mention the best day of their lives is the speed that it takes place. So be by her side when she needs you: to go to the toilet, to wipe her tears of emotion before the ceremonyto take her hand when she is stressed and reassure her about her possible doubts. Also be the friend who will be able to tell the mother (sometimes invasive) to stay in her place and the one who will be able to tell her how happy she will be! After all, she will live on the first day of the rest of her life, and you will always be present for other future events.
Prepare surprises for the bride and groom
In a marriagethere are different stages: the celebration (at the town hall, nun or secular), lunch or dinner, and finally, the dance evening. Between these highlights, the atmosphere will not have to fall like a soufflé! If the bride and groom generally plan a few animations with the DJ, you will also be responsible for organizing some surprises for the stars of the day. Think of a flashmob with the other guests, well -oiled wedding games (the twelve month game for example) to give a stroke of pep’s to the evening and prevent Tata Jeannine from falling asleep before the official extinction of the fires!
Article proposed by Marion Auvray of the Zankyou Weddings site.
