If your cat does not leave you with a sole, let you follow you in each room in the house until you lie on the keyboard of the computer in telework, it is for these three reasons.
Who has never had the impression of having a feline shadow? This little companion who follows us from room to room, even in the most intimate places. As soon as the bathroom door is closed than a small leg, accompanied by plaintive mealing. You decide to get into the bedroom, and here it is that goes beyond you on the stairs. In teleworking, it is impossible to escape the cat that lugs on the keyboard of the computer. This habit, sometimes fun, sometimes disconcerting, actually hides much deeper reasons than one might think. So why this little companion, reputed to be so independent, does not absolutely want not to let go of a sole?
This need to follow us is not (only) a way to claim kibble or attract our attention to a caress. This somewhat invasive behavior is actually much more complex than it seems and speaks volumes about the psychology of our felines and on the nature of the very special bond they weave with us. These reasons, often intertwined, explain why your cat considers you as its benchmark.
First of all, a cat has a need for proximity and social ties: they do not see their masters only as a source of food, but as a pillar of their social structure. For many cats, and in particular interior cats that have fewer external stimulation, their masters are the center of their universe. They just want to be present so as not to miss any action. Cats also have an insatiable curiosity. Naturally alert, they like to control their territory, and their master is an integral part. Each trip is new to inspect. A door that closes suddenly can generate anxiety, because your cat feels excluded and does not know what’s going on on the other side.
Finally, cats are looking for security. When he seeks to relax or feels vulnerable, he instinctively seeks the proximity of his confidence humans. Your presence is reassuring. A room where you isolate yourself is a room where their source of safety has disappeared. This behavior is also influenced by the race, some like the Siamese or the Maine Coons being reputed to be particularly affectionate.
There is absolutely no reason to worry about this behavior, which is most often the sign of a balanced cat attached to you. However, if you feel your anxious cat, it should be reassured. Try not to punish him while keeping in mind until he scratches the door or he follows you everywhere, this is a sign of affection. Pushing it down could create misunderstanding and stress.
For interior cats, offer distractions to fill boredom and therefore dependence. If you have to isolate yourself, leave him a dispenser toy of treats or his favorite cushion in the next room so that he associates your short absence with something pleasant. Finally, respect his need for independence: make sure he has his own safety spaces (a height basket, a hiding place) where he can withdraw when he wishes. In short, a cat that follows you is a communicating cat. He tells you, in his own way, that you are his home port, his source of entertainment and security. It is a great proof of confidence and affection.
